The adoption
of a baby or child deserves a celebration! The parents will need everything
that a pregnant couple would need for the new baby. Here are a few thoughts
about adoption baby showers:
Timing
of the party:
When the
baby shower should take place is really a personal preference of the
parents-to-be. You, as the host, should check with the parents-to-be
as to when they expect the child to arrive home. You can either have
the party before the child arrives or after.
Games
for the party:
There are two differences between an adoptive baby shower and a
"normal" baby shower. One is that the mom-to-be is not pregnant.
So, the games that you decide to play should not reflect a pregnant
mom. Do not play "how big around is mom" and any maternity
related game.
The second
difference may be the age of the child. They may be adopting a three
year old as opposed to a newborn. So, a game such as "guess the
birth date/ weight of baby" wouldn't be appropriate for an older
child adoption.
For game
ideas, click here...
Parties
After the Child Arrives:
Please be conscious of the adjustment period a new family will have
once their child comes home. You may want to give them some time before
the celebration to get to know each other. This is especially true of
an older child adoption.
Theme
of the Party:
The theme of the adoption baby shower should be the same as any
other baby shower. For ideas, click here..
If the
party, however, is after the adoption and is for an older child, then
maybe consider creating a theme that includes the child's likes. For
example: if the child likes "Pooh and Tigger", then use that
for your theme. He/she will then have a sense of inclusion and involvement
in the party.
Overall:
The adoption baby shower should be run like any other party. Every
situation is different and you will need to take into account the circumstances
surrounding your particular adoption. Timing, age of child, the parent's
wants, etc.. If you are not sure, then ask.
Another
great resource is Adoption.org